Baring My Soul is a category of writing where I share a personal piece of my life’s journey in an effort to do my part in maintaining connection because when we share our stories, we let someone know that they are not alone.
How do you make someone believe?
I don’t know. However, you can try to make someone believe by the way you live your life.
You must lead by example when trying to make someone believe. You constantly keep SHOWING them how whatever you believe is working or has worked for you.
What are elements of good communication?
Here are three:
Being able to explain information clearly.
Being a good (willing and present) listener.
Being honest.
What inspires me?
God.
My man.
Different loved ones.
My future.
People I don’t know.
Peaceful places.
Bodies of water - from oceans all the way to ponds.
Plants and trees.
Gaining wisdom.
Observing life happen around me.
Words and books.
Sounds and music.
What does it mean to honor someone?
To respect and value a person in the way that they want to be respected and valued.
When we honor someone, we make sure that what we say and what we do are in alignment. Lastly, we show honor by showing consideration and practicing radical honesty.
How do you stay true to yourself?
I constantly remind myself that when I am not true to myself, I cannot get what I TRULY want out of life. When I am not true to myself, I participate in creating a life that is a lie. People may not always be honest with me but I do not and cannot control others - I can only control self.
I have to be honest about who I am and what I want because that is how you authentically live life.
How can I slow life down when it is moving too fast?
I have to be more intentional about what I say yes or no to when I want to slow life down. I have to say yes to things that slow my life down and I have to say no to things that continue to speed my life up. For example, if I am serious about slowing my life down I may have to say no to a moneymaking opportunity if it speeds up my life.
Ultimately, I control the pacing of my life and must make decisions that will be a reflection of the speed I desire.
What colors (for the most part) make me feel good or confident when I wear them?
Black
Reds
Blues
“Earth tones” - greens, browns, oranges, and yellows.
My Intention: Wear more of these colors.
Why is learning important?
It’s simple. Learning is how we grow and growing is what we are here to do.
Much love.